Okay so I did go see her again. But she is smart and strong enough for the both of us. She can’t be involved with a married man no matter how she feels.
And my marriage is definatley over I know that, it just took me a while to see it. I have tried.
I have to take care of my marital situation before I can pursue the other. That is clear.
Wish me luck.
Good luck!
I’m assuming you’ve talked to your wife extensively about your feelings and you’ve considered trying counselling and all that stuff…. It’s a very big thing to just throw away.. but you know this already.
Keep us posted….[hugs]
Oh Ya. We did the counselling thing already. Things haven’t changed. I do need to talk to her more though. I don’t want to throw anything away. Your right.
Your moving in the right direction love, just choose your steps carefully. And I’m with Vanessa keep us posted. Here if you need us!
“I’m assuming you’ve talked to your wife extensively about your feelings and you’ve considered trying counselling and all that stuff…. It’s a very big thing to just throw away.. but you know this already.”
Well I was going to say the same thing.
I agree with all the above. BUT don’t stay to appease her or anyone else. You deserve to be happy AND she does too. If you aren’t happy, she’s not going to be happy and she deserves to have someone that she loves and that loves her back just as much. Does that makes sense at all? I know…I stayed for years just to appease all around me. BUT in the long run..he was miserable and so was I so the best thing to have done was to just give up. BUT do try your hardest to fix it if you truely want to.
And yes…keep us posted!