Comments on: Final Installment http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/ Just another day on the frozen tundra Fri, 29 Jun 2007 06:17:06 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-34 artvandalay Mon, 07 May 2007 12:21:55 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-34 Your right K. I'm just not the kind of person who likes to dwell on things or feel sorry for myself. So I don't want to blog about this anymore under this categorie. I will start to blog about something else your right. Thx. Your right K. I’m just not the kind of person who likes to dwell on things or feel sorry for myself. So I don’t want to blog about this anymore under this categorie. I will start to blog about something else your right. Thx.

]]> By: RunningKate http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-33 RunningKate Sat, 05 May 2007 16:12:41 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-33 you shouldn't stop blogging just because things have ended. find something new to take ur mind off of it and blog about that. there's got to be some hobby or interesting thing you want to talk about. that might help you shift your focus and work on yourself to be a better person. just an idea... you shouldn’t stop blogging just because things have ended. find something new to take ur mind off of it and blog about that. there’s got to be some hobby or interesting thing you want to talk about. that might help you shift your focus and work on yourself to be a better person. just an idea…

]]> By: rannaland http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-32 rannaland Fri, 04 May 2007 17:56:59 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-32 I went kinda MIA for a bit. So much going on in Rannaland. BLAH BLAH BLAH! LOL! I will let you read my latest blog to get the details. But you are headed in the right direction. You can use this time to figure out what it is that you want, and what will make you happy. Your the one that has to live in your body, so you may as well make it a life worth enduring. Hope you have a great weekend! Here if you need anything. I went kinda MIA for a bit. So much going on in Rannaland. BLAH BLAH BLAH! LOL! I will let you read my latest blog to get the details. But you are headed in the right direction. You can use this time to figure out what it is that you want, and what will make you happy. Your the one that has to live in your body, so you may as well make it a life worth enduring. Hope you have a great weekend! Here if you need anything.

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-31 artvandalay Fri, 04 May 2007 17:09:58 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-31 Hey Ranna, I was wondering where you were. How's it going eh? Thanks for the comments. You know I really do feel better having made a decision a least now I can work on getting over her. But I had to cut all ties to do that, no "friends" thing. I could handle that. And you're right on with the next task....What do I want. Hope all is well on your side on the screen. Enjoy the lovely weekend.....finally. All you guys are so sweet. Right back at ya. Cheers Hey Ranna,

I was wondering where you were. How’s it going eh?

Thanks for the comments. You know I really do feel better having made a decision a least now I can work on getting over her. But I had to cut all ties to do that, no “friends” thing. I could handle that.

And you’re right on with the next task….What do I want.

Hope all is well on your side on the screen. Enjoy the lovely weekend…..finally.

All you guys are so sweet. Right back at ya.

Cheers

]]> By: rannaland http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-30 rannaland Fri, 04 May 2007 16:26:41 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-30 Hey man, sorry I havent checked in in a bit, been a little crazy here. I have to agree, you have made the right move here with the girlfriend. Now you can concentrate on the next thing. your marriage. Just don't let the fear of being alone keep you in a relationship that is not healthy for either party. I did that for far too many years and regret it everyday now. Had I left that much sooner, I would be that much further in my road to recovery. Trust me that makes sense to me. :) And it's like AB said. We are always here for you, with an unbiased ear to listen. That is the best part of this whole little blog world we have going on. You can post what's really on your mind and know that NONE of us are going to judge you for it. I have made many new friends and been encouraged by them since I started my blog. It has helped so much. AND YES WE ALL WANT TO READ YOUR CRAP! That's what friends are for. Take care man, and again we are all here for you. Hey man, sorry I havent checked in in a bit, been a little crazy here. I have to agree, you have made the right move here with the girlfriend. Now you can concentrate on the next thing. your marriage. Just don’t let the fear of being alone keep you in a relationship that is not healthy for either party. I did that for far too many years and regret it everyday now. Had I left that much sooner, I would be that much further in my road to recovery. Trust me that makes sense to me. :)

And it’s like AB said. We are always here for you, with an unbiased ear to listen. That is the best part of this whole little blog world we have going on. You can post what’s really on your mind and know that NONE of us are going to judge you for it. I have made many new friends and been encouraged by them since I started my blog. It has helped so much. AND YES WE ALL WANT TO READ YOUR CRAP! That’s what friends are for. Take care man, and again we are all here for you.

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-29 artvandalay Fri, 04 May 2007 12:46:14 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-29 Thnaks for the kind words. Feeling better already. Cheers. Thnaks for the kind words. Feeling better already.

Cheers.

]]> By: alluringbutterfly http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-28 alluringbutterfly Fri, 04 May 2007 02:46:05 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-28 You will get passed these ruts eventually. It takes time, self-control and support, which that's what your friends, and us, your fellow bloggers, are here for. I agree with Vanessa...you did the right thing with the girlfriend. It's better for you to be able to make the next decision you will have to make in your life and marriage. Whatever you decide, you can't have the distraction of someone else. always remember, we are all here for ya with unbias views of you. ;) You will get passed these ruts eventually. It takes time, self-control and support, which that’s what your friends, and us, your fellow bloggers, are here for.

I agree with Vanessa…you did the right thing with the girlfriend. It’s better for you to be able to make the next decision you will have to make in your life and marriage. Whatever you decide, you can’t have the distraction of someone else.

always remember, we are all here for ya with unbias views of you. ;)

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-27 artvandalay Wed, 02 May 2007 17:49:20 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-27 You're right it's a good distraction. Who wants to read my crap. :D You’re right it’s a good distraction. Who wants to read my crap. :D

]]> By: Vanessa http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-26 Vanessa Wed, 02 May 2007 17:41:10 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-26 Ah, you're a sweetie. I'm glad you like them! :) It's a strange thing, this blogging business. Get a couple of hundred hits, but only 3 or 4 people leave a comment. It makes you wonder if you're a bit crap, hehe... Then, when I start thinking about that, I just say F**k it, and please myself :D It's a good distraction, is what it is ;) Ah, you’re a sweetie. I’m glad you like them! :)

It’s a strange thing, this blogging business. Get a couple of hundred hits, but only 3 or 4 people leave a comment. It makes you wonder if you’re a bit crap, hehe…

Then, when I start thinking about that, I just say F**k it, and please myself :D

It’s a good distraction, is what it is ;)

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-25 artvandalay Wed, 02 May 2007 16:59:09 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/final-installment/#comment-25 Thanks, Van. I am usually quite a cheerful fellow. feeling like a dogs breakfast lately, trying to hold my head up, but It's taking all my strenth. I am not going to dwell on it, just stop blogging in the heartache categorie. It's not healthy :) Not blogging all together. P.S. Keep up the good work with your blogs. Good stuff! Lovin' it. Thanks, Van. I am usually quite a cheerful fellow. feeling like a dogs breakfast lately, trying to hold my head up, but It’s taking all my strenth. I am not going to dwell on it, just stop blogging in the heartache categorie. It’s not healthy :) Not blogging all together.

P.S. Keep up the good work with your blogs. Good stuff! Lovin’ it.

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