Comments on: Decision made easy… http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/ Just another day on the frozen tundra Fri, 29 Jun 2007 06:17:06 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Vanessa http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-23 Vanessa Tue, 24 Apr 2007 11:15:32 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-23 I sent someone an important email last week and I was quite upset after 3 or 4 days when I hadn't received a response. It turned out they'd never received it..... It sounds odd to me that she hasn't responded. Don't jump to conclusions until you know for sure. That dream of your wife's is pretty scary, eh? Farrk. I sent someone an important email last week and I was quite upset after 3 or 4 days when I hadn’t received a response. It turned out they’d never received it…..

It sounds odd to me that she hasn’t responded. Don’t jump to conclusions until you know for sure.

That dream of your wife’s is pretty scary, eh? Farrk.

]]> By: rannaland http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-22 rannaland Tue, 24 Apr 2007 00:59:30 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-22 Your going to be just fine honey. This kind of thing does take time. Just hang in there and I promise things will work out the way they are supposed to. I'm here if you need me!! You got my email if you want to use it instead! Take care man! Your going to be just fine honey. This kind of thing does take time. Just hang in there and I promise things will work out the way they are supposed to. I’m here if you need me!! You got my email if you want to use it instead! Take care man!

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-19 artvandalay Mon, 23 Apr 2007 14:17:43 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-19 Thanks Butterfly. The more the merrier. Now I'll have to snoop around your page. :) Ya it kinda sucks, but I am just going to have to cut all ties for now. There is no other way I can get over her. She still wants to be friends and still wants to see me, but I can't do that. Like you, it is tempting to stay in contact. The problem for me is I am causing my self to much pain. That's not good. I guess you have to make up your own mind, whether you can deal with it or not by seeing him. I my case it will just kill me to see her with dating someone else and talking about someone and pretend to be friends. Just can't do that right now. Glad to meet ya..... Thanks Butterfly. The more the merrier. Now I’ll have to snoop around your page. :)

Ya it kinda sucks, but I am just going to have to cut all ties for now. There is no other way I can get over her. She still wants to be friends and still wants to see me, but I can’t do that.

Like you, it is tempting to stay in contact. The problem for me is I am causing my self to much pain. That’s not good. I guess you have to make up your own mind, whether you can deal with it or not by seeing him.

I my case it will just kill me to see her with dating someone else and talking about someone and pretend to be friends. Just can’t do that right now.

Glad to meet ya…..

]]> By: alluringbutterfly http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-17 alluringbutterfly Mon, 23 Apr 2007 13:56:58 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-17 I've had to do the same as you are doing now. I had to tell the man that I love GOOD BYE and it was hard. But the sad thing is we still talk on the phone. The good thing on my end is that he left for 6 months and that has helped me out alot. Him not being here and seeing his face and feeling his touch has helped me alot. Now don't get me wrong hearing his voice and his lies once again has made me still stick around for awhile but i'm doing lots better. Time will tell and you have to give it time. But my big fear now is that he is coming home in 2 weeks and I'm going to need to be stronger than ever. Sorry, I snooped on your page and I found it similar to mine. (found you on Rannaland's blog) I hope you don't mind I will add you on my blogroll. :) Good luck to you! I’ve had to do the same as you are doing now. I had to tell the man that I love GOOD BYE and it was hard. But the sad thing is we still talk on the phone. The good thing on my end is that he left for 6 months and that has helped me out alot. Him not being here and seeing his face and feeling his touch has helped me alot. Now don’t get me wrong hearing his voice and his lies once again has made me still stick around for awhile but i’m doing lots better. Time will tell and you have to give it time. But my big fear now is that he is coming home in 2 weeks and I’m going to need to be stronger than ever.

Sorry, I snooped on your page and I found it similar to mine. (found you on Rannaland’s blog) I hope you don’t mind I will add you on my blogroll. :)

Good luck to you!

]]> By: artvandalay http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-16 artvandalay Mon, 23 Apr 2007 13:06:17 +0000 http://artvandalay.wordpress.com/2007/04/23/decision-made-easy/#comment-16 Boy, I just read through what I wrote. Pretty choppy. I think my brain works faster than my fingers..... Boy, I just read through what I wrote. Pretty choppy. I think my brain works faster than my fingers…..

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