I have come to a decision. sigh!
I have to end it will the other girl. It’s just way to complicated. I can’t handle it, my head hurts.
So now what I feared most will happen. I am in love and have to say good by to that. I have to go back and mope around in my current relationship and face a life mediocraty and knowing she is out there and will be with someone else.
I have to tell the other sometime soon. This will not be good.
Is there something you can take to make the pain in my chest and knot in my gut go away? And being able to stop thinking of her would be nice too. I can’t breathe when I think of her.
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Ahh but here’s the thing dear, You are planning to end the affair and tell your wife. Do you think that your wife will leave you? And I must ask about the other woman? Does she love you with the same intensity that you love her?
This is a tough life choice, I know. I did leave my husband when I found out about his affairs, but it was not right away. I tried very hard to stay and make our marriage work but the feelings of mistrust were too much to bear. I really do hate this for you, but know this. If both of these relationships end then you will have time to find YOU in the aftermath. Seek out your OWN wants,needs, and what makes YOU happy before you decide to give another relationship a try. I’m here to listen if you need to talk!
Ranna, I think he meant he was going to tell the other woman he was leaving…
Gosh, I’m not one to talk about this at all. I just can’t…. As I am also drowning in a sea of mediocrity.
Affairs of the heart will be the death of us all…
Ahh Vanessa I think your right on the fact that he was talking about the other woman. OOPS Blonde moment! HA and you are far from being mediocre Love! I do understand though how you feel Vanessa Dear. I too was in that kind of mediocre relationship. It bites! And yes affairs of the heart will do us all in eventually I fear!